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Sex Toy Recommendations (in Germany)

Women's self-pleasure toys recommendations: 

Vibrators 

 

Suctional Vibrators: 

 

This is a suctional vibrator, known to make women orgasm VERY quickly. These can be very intense, but overall they are said to be prized possession of women who own them. 

 

These toys are also known (also from my own personal experience) to give multiple orgasms, as well as cause a woman to squirt. 

 

A word of caution: If not used in moderation, vibrators can make you desensitized, and most of all they can become “addicting” in the sense that these are not sensations made possible by humans. 

 

Tips: If this is the first time for a woman to use it, I recommend to have some foreplay and a bit of arousal before you use the suctional vibrators, because it may be too intense and may be ticklish or just uncomfortable. 

 

Use it for your yoni (pussy), nipples, neck; and whatever feels good for you! 

 

Lelo Sona 2:

https://amzn.to/42WpD9N 

 

LEL0 Sona 2 Cruise

https://amzn.to/3U42WMQ

 

 Lelo Sila Sonic:

https://amzn.to/3ZpdGWV

 

Enigma Cruise Deep Rose

https://amzn.to/42W5ctm



 

We-vibe: 

 

Chorus, Sync, & Match: 

A very versatile toy for self-pleasure and couple's play. You can get very creative with this toy; it has two ends that vibrate independently, meaning each side can have a different rumble, you can connect it to your phone with an app to create your own vibrational settings. 

Play with it inserted in your Yoni and over your clit, or experiment with it one in your Yoni and one in your anus. 

 

Because of its C shape, you can also use it to stimulate the entirety of your clitoris including its “legs” located in your outer lips. 

 

In couples play, insert it in Yoni and over clit and your partner can insert their Lingam or a phallic toy to stimulate you vaginally. 


 

We-vibe Chorus (Best Option, due to its remote): 

https://amzn.to/3JVS1jG

 

Sync:

https://amzn.to/3zgdhf3

 

We-vibe Match: 

https://amzn.to/3KkWOfP


 

Vibrators: 

These are for those long sessions where long battery life is necessary, and your main focus is clitoral vibration play. It can also be pleasurable on your anus and the rest of your body.

 

Smart Wand 2:

https://amzn.to/3KiGlc2



 

Wands (for penetration) and vaginal masturbators

 

Rose quartz or Jade wand:

Crystal wands are great for healing your Yoni by cleansing it energetically. Rosa quartz is known for calling in universal love, and Jade is known for calling in peace.   

https://amzn.to/3G55uEm

 

Black Obsidian wand:

You can use this if you want to use your sexual energy to call in a specific desire.

https://amzn.to/3nBhas6

 

8" soft dildo:

https://amzn.to/3nCPx1R

 

CLONE-A-WILLY - Silicone Penis copying:

Create a copy of your partner’s cock.

https://amzn.to/3lXH5tN

 

Sensory toys:

 

Pinwheels:

 

Single wheel:

https://amzn.to/3G5xisB

 

1 & 3 pin set:

https://amzn.to/3nAEiY0


 

1,3,5,7 pin Set with Case:

https://amzn.to/3ZnWhxW


 

Drip Candles:

https://amzn.to/3lQpZOy

 

Impact toys: 

 

Crop with studded side (my personal favorite):

https://tidd.ly/3Z21PPS

 

Crop (riding crop): 

https://amzn.to/3M9WnGF


 

Other:

 

Toy cleaner:

https://amzn.to/3lXI11h

 

Book a private session! Online sessions available (coaching) 

 

Private sessions with Eric to fully discover toys, sensations, and therapy are available in person. Couples are also able to book live via video call from anywhere in the world! 

 

Tantric Massage:

https://tantriceric.wixsite.com/home/tantric-massage 

 

Tantric Squirting:

https://tantriceric.wixsite.com/home/tantric-squirting 

 

Sensation Activation:

https://tantriceric.wixsite.com/home/sensation-activation 

 

Psychedelic Breathwork:

https://tantriceric.wixsite.com/home/psychedelic-breathwork 

 

Sensual Spanking:

https://tantriceric.wixsite.com/home/private-spanking 

 

Body Trauma De-armouring: https://tantriceric.wixsite.com/home/de-armouring  

 

Sexy Workshops and events coming to Berlin this Summer 2023:

  • Tantric Squirting - A dive into deeper connection and a discovery of the wonderful world of female ejaculation. 

  • Sensual Spanking - A new perspective on sensuality through impact play.

  • Tantric Massage Course - Learn what is feels like to REALLY FEEL your entire body. And share that feeling with your partners! 

  • Tantric Temple of Desires - Conscious kinky play parties where you can find deeper connections to yourself and to others; all in a safe, and sexy space. 

Socials: 

Instagram: @tantric.eric  https://www.instagram.com/tantric.eric/ 

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/tantric.eric 



 

Self-pleasure for men: 

Male Masturbators: 

Pussy sleeves with suction cup:

The advantage of the suction cup is that you can stick it to a wall (in a shower for example) and use it hands-free.

 

https://amzn.to/3nwTFRg

 

With movement feature:

https://amzn.to/40OWThb

 

Tenga Egg:

Ultra-portable. Even if it seems single-use, it is very easy to clean and reuse. 

https://amzn.to/3KmpZ22


 

We-vibe Chorus: 

 

You can clamp the we-vibe over the tip of your Lingam with the middle of the C at your exit, and secure it in place with a rubber band. Using the different vibrational settings, and only holding your Lingam at the base for stability, test how it feels to orgasm without using stroking motions. 

 

Anal play is not gay. Experiment with your body, it's yours and it's all beautiful and capable of pleasure; Try inserting one end of the we-vibe into your anus using some water-based lube. With the possibility of having different vibrational patterns on each end, you can play with it and see which vibrations are good for YOU. 

 

We-vibe Chorus (Best Option, due to its remote): 

https://amzn.to/3JVS1jG

 

Sync:

https://amzn.to/3zgdhf3

 

We-vibe Match: 

https://amzn.to/3KkWOfP



 

Couples play: 

Condoms: 

I’ve used A LOT of different condoms in my life and I have not found anything that beats the sensation that SKYN Elite gives. They are 20 percent thinner than the SKYN original and have NEVER BROKEN on me. Sometimes I have to check that it is still on. 

 

STORY TIME: In addition to how good they FEEL, they are also non-latex. Up to 6 percent of the population is allergic to latex. I was once accused by a girl of giving her genital herpes. This made absolutely no sense to me because I had zero symptoms and I get tested frequently (every 3 months on average). It turned out, after a week of stress, that it was only a latex allergy, and nothing else. Since then I vowed to only purchase non-latex condoms. 

 

Skyns Elite (Non-Latex): 

10 pack: https://amzn.to/3M4T6rX

50 Pack https://amzn.to/42RPZcU 

80 pack + Original Condoms 20 pack + Aqua Feel Lubricant 80 ml: https://amzn.to/3nxbBuT


 

SKYN Large: 

10 pack: https://amzn.to/3nAHGlL

40 pack: https://amzn.to/3lSzEE3



 

Vibrators for Couples: 

 

In couples play, insert it in Yoni and over clit and you partner can insert their Lingam or a phallic toy to stimulate you vaginally. 

 

Have him insert the we-vibe into his anus, and feel the rumble of the vibration through his Lingam. 

 

Secure the we-vibe at the base of his Lingam and experiment with penetration, oral and hand play. For him, the vibration will be felt on his testicles and shaft, and for her, she’ll feel it in through his cock. 


 

We-vibe Chorus (Best Option, due to its remote): 

https://amzn.to/3JVS1jG

 

Sync:

https://amzn.to/3zgdhf3

 

We-vibe Match: 

https://amzn.to/3KkWOfP



 

CLONE-A-WILLY - Silicone Penis copying:

Create a copy of your partner’s cock. 

https://amzn.to/3lXH5tN

(I recommend NOT using the vibrator that it comes with if you’re going to use it for couples play.)

 

Great for:

  • Using it as a pegging wand. He finally gets to feel what he’s been giving out. 

  • Double penetration. Filling her up with two of your cocks. Make it even more fun by using a strap-on harness.

  • Threesome with two Goddesses. He can penetrate both at the same time with his cocks, again better with a strap-on harness. 

    • Penetrate one of your goddesses while she penetrates the other with your copy. 

 

  


 

Strap-on Harness:

Beginner https://amzn.to/40JJUhn

Mid-range https://amzn.to/3nxceof

High-end quality https://amzn.to/3G0vwsI



 

Sensory toys:

 

Pinwheels:

 

1 & 3 pin set:

https://amzn.to/3G5xisB

 

3 pin: 

https://amzn.to/3nAEiY0

 

1,3,5,7 pin Set with Case:

https://amzn.to/3ZnWhxW

 

Drip Candles:

https://amzn.to/3lQpZOy 

 

Orgasmatron (Head-scratcher):

https://amzn.to/3Kj7iMM

Impact toys: 

 

Crop with studded side (my personal favorite):

https://tidd.ly/3Z21PPS

 

Crop (riding crop): 

https://amzn.to/3M9WnGF

 

Leather flogger with thick falls, more of a heavy thumper: 

https://tidd.ly/3jKOPxy

 

Flogger on a swivel. What's nice about the swivel is that it gives you more swing without putting in as my wrist strain. 

https://tidd.ly/3IeXXoz 

 

Other:

 

Toy cleaner:

https://amzn.to/3lXI11h


 

Book a private session! Online sessions available (coaching) 

 

Private sessions with Eric for a full discovery of toys, sensations, and therapy are available in person. Couples are also able to book live via video call from anywhere in the world! 

 

Tantric Massage:

https://tantriceric.wixsite.com/home/tantric-massage 

 

Tantric Squirting:

https://tantriceric.wixsite.com/home/tantric-squirting 

 

Sensation Activation:

https://tantriceric.wixsite.com/home/sensation-activation 

 

Psychedelic Breathwork:

https://tantriceric.wixsite.com/home/psychedelic-breathwork 

 

Sensual Spanking:

https://tantriceric.wixsite.com/home/private-spanking 

 

Body Trauma De-armouring: https://tantriceric.wixsite.com/home/de-armouring  

 

Socials: 

Instagram: @tantric.eric  https://www.instagram.com/tantric.eric/ 

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/tantric.eric 

Website: https://tantriceric.wixsite.com/home 

 

Anal Toys: 

Butt plugs

SAFETY WARNING: 

Toys CAN GET LOST! 

Anal play can be enjoyable and pleasurable, but it is important to engage in safe practices to avoid injury or harm. Always use a water-based lubricant, start with smaller toys and gradually work your way up to larger ones, and never force anything into the anus. Make sure the toys you use have a flared base to prevent them from getting lost inside the body. If any discomfort, bleeding, or pain occurs, stop immediately and seek medical attention. Remember, the anus is not a dead-end and toys can potentially travel up the intestine and cause serious harm. 

 

S/M/L silicon:

https://amzn.to/3nvtFpg

 

4 piece, silicon long tips:

https://amzn.to/42RTvE9

 

Bunny tail:

https://amzn.to/3TUcObV

 

Fox Tail with Stainless Steel Plug:

https://amzn.to/3zjY1O5

 

Vibrating butt plug:

https://amzn.to/3zqOBAh

 

Vibrating fox Tail: 

https://amzn.to/3lUSWbX

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